Early last month,
I posted about my partner's cousin Dean and his battle with a brain tumor. We knew Dean didn't have long to live then, and he died early morning on August 23rd.
I haven't been able to post for a while because we were very sad and we had to go to Wellington, New Zealand for Dean's funeral. There was an
obituary for Dean in the Dominion Post. He was only 42 and sadly left his wife and two children, aged 7 & 5.
Dean's funeral was huge. It was at
St Mary of the Angels Catholic cathedral in Wellington city. There were 1400 people there, standing room only in the church, and a huge crowd outside. They even had speakers so those outside could hear the service. The whole street was closed. There were 500 uniformed police officers in attendance. Police officers were pall bearers bringing Dean's coffin into the church, they wore white gloves and some of them were crying. He had the NZ flag draped on his coffin, and his cap. An officer followed the pall bearers with a pillow bearing a police medal.
As Dean's coffin came down the aisle of the cathedral, the police
Kapa Haka group performed traditional Maori funeral procedures. It was very moving, you could have heard a pin drop. At the end, there was a police honour guard. The whole of the street was lined by uniformed police on both sides, including members of the dog squad, and there was a final haka of farewell to Dean.
We had a wake for Dean that evening.
The next day we went to Scorching Bay for lunch. The weather was beautiful - normally in Wellington at this time of year it isn't. So we were lucky.
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Scorching Bay |
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Scorching Bay |
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The Cafe |
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Wellington Bays |
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Across the way |
We didn't feel much like taking photos, so there aren't many to post. However, the next morning we took a walk to the
Weta Cave, part of Peter Jackson's immense studio complex in Miramar. We were staying with relatives just up the road. There were a few Lord of the Rings things:
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Life-size Gandalf...King Kong is on the wall at the back |
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Gandalf |
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Gandalf |
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Lurtz - over 7 feet tall, and actually a real guy, except the feet |
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Lurtz is large and scary |
On the walk home to our family's house in Miramar, we saw there was a regular Tea Dance at the church:
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That guy has a bottle of champagne - no Tea to be seen |